Author: Joseph Hocking

Amelia’s Story Part II – The Journey to Healing

Amelia immersed herself in the shelter’s programs. She worked closely with client advocates, joined a domestic violence support group, enrolled her children in youth groups, consulted with a legal advocate, and received care from a health advocate. Slowly, she began to heal. Her determination to lift herself and her children out of their dark past was evident in everything she did. As Amelia’s confidence grew, her children began to feel safe once more. Their smiles greeted us every time they came in for group sessions, a testament to their growing sense of security.

With the support of a client advocate and her own resolve, Amelia eventually found a place for her family. She shared the news with tears of joy, particularly moved by the simple act of choosing her own curtains. “I know it seems so small,” she said, “but for me, it means the world to choose how I decorate our little home without anyone putting me down or destroying what we’re building.” Amelia began volunteering at her children’s school and, through networking, secured a part-time job. She continued to participate in support groups and ensured her children received the care they needed. Determined to build a better future, Amelia enrolled in English as a Second Language (ESL) and computer literacy classes at a community college with her advocate’s help.

Amelia’s Story Part I – Finding Courage

Amelia, a 34-year-old mother of two, had endured 13 years of abuse at the hands of her husband. The abuse was relentless—physical, sexual, psychological, and financial. When her husband began directing his violence toward their 7 and 10-year-old children, Amelia knew she had to act. With her family’s support, she summoned the courage to leave. One day, while her husband was at work, Amelia packed up their belongings and fled. She called WomenShelter of Long Beach, desperate and afraid, but hopeful for a new beginning.

When Amelia arrived at the shelter, she was a picture of fear and confusion. She knew she had to escape, but was uncertain about her future. Her husband’s attempts to intimidate and manipulate her did not cease, even after she left. An advocate explained the services available and reassured her that help could be provided for up to a year. Despite her fear of what might happen after that time, Amelia took a brave step forward and embraced the support offered to her.